Do You Wish You Had Cinderella's Fairy Godmother Instead of Relationship Information?
Untitled DocumentDear Friend,
You expected your relationship to be a partnership – where both partners pull together and create something bigger than both of you. You thought your partner would be someone unfailingly on your side – who'd love you just because you are you. But it isn't like that. So you have browsed the web for the latest relationship information, books, e-books and advice on relationships to fix an unfulfilling relationship. Are you feeling hopeless about your relationship? The truth is, most relationships do not work. In fact, many people never experience the relationship of their dreams.
Does Any of This Describe Your Relationship Experience?
• You haven't had a good relationship for any extended period of time.
• You don’t believe people when they tell you that you can create the relationship you want.
• You have no confidence in your relationship skills and you are afraid that you will never be able to have a happy love story.
• You are afraid that you can’t learn how to have a relationship that works.
• Deep down inside there is a dark little fear that you are not acceptable to the opposite sex.
• You pretty much don't trust the opposite sex at all.
• When you look around at the divorce rate, the number of breakups and the unhappy or mediocre relationships, you are afraid that no relationships really work.
• You get advice on your relationships from friends whose romances or marriages don't look anything like the happily ever after you see in the movies.
• You once had a great relationship which ended for some reason and you've never been able to create it again. So now you think it must have been just plain luck.
If any of these statements above describes you, I have great news for you!
Great and Magical Results You Can
Achieve with Pumpkin Coaching (or
Transformational Coaching)
(Remember the Fairy God Mother in the Cinderella story?
Well, I'm kind of like that only not with pumpkins or raggedy dresses!)
Stop chasing solutions that don’t work. It takes proper knowledge and skills to create a functional, lifelong relationship. With the information, feedback and the great tools you receive from our coaching collaboration, you can have the relationship of your dreams.
Pumpkin Coaching will teach you confidence in your relationship skills, how to look at your “perceived failures” without judgment and ways to deal with all aspects of relationships.
"I knew that coaching would make a difference in my life. It had the potential to, but I knew that I was ready and that things would change as a result of my working with you. 'The Pumpkin Coach' perfectly describes the transformational process - keeping it positive, midnight's stroke never comes to wipe out your progress and condemn you back to the cellar - one gets to keep the goodies." Anita Bruce, Writer/Editor, Spiritual Life Coach, Tampa FL |
With over 10 years experience coaching people to a new view of and success with their relationships, I taught them how to ensure more flourishing relationships in their future. Did you know:
• Feeling confident in relationships is possible.
• That you have a real value in any relationship.
• I will you prove that long term healthy relationships are achievable.
• You can learn the real truth about the value of the pain you have experienced in past relationships.
• You can learn the nuts and bolts of the little known method of creating the relationship you want.
• You can understand the critical information that on some level being alone is a choice.
• You can learn to recognize when you are settling for less than what you want.
• You can get advice from someone with a 19-year non-functional past relationship and a 23-year successful, highly functional current relationship.
What does Pumpkin Coaching Look Like?
• Since we talk on the phone one hour each week, you get consistent, regular support and feedback on your assignments and direction to make your relationship better.
• I see things from different perspective than you who are in the situation can. You will get the benefit of an objective perspective.
• You have my full attention with no interruptions allowed so you get to be the star of the show for one hour. When was the last time that happened to you?
• Since you are in your own quiet place with no interruptions or distractions, you will be concentrating on your relationship goals with attention and my expert support.
• You call me at an appointed time that works for both of us as a result you are free to focus on yourself completely without feeling the pressure of the rest of your life.
• I have a gift of intuitively "hooking up" to you which deepens as I get to know you. With my extensive experience and training, you will be able to make relationship progress that might have taken you years to achieve otherwise.
"My Pumpkin Coaching experience with Maia made such a positive impact on my life that trying to describe it in words lessens it! I am writing about it because I believe everyone should know how much of a difference her work can make in your life.
Working with her has allowed me to surpass years of traditional stuff, like self-help, self-discovery workshops and trainings. I have saved hundreds of dollars that would have been wasted on traditional therapies. She had faith in me when I had none in myself! She showed my how to have faith in myself.
Thank you Maia your presence in my life has been a saving grace and has kept me going when I thought I couldn't take another step. You are my magic fairy god-mother! You have all the love and blessings I can send," Maria Sobrado, Author and Book Coach, Kingston, NY | • One of the first things we agree on is where you want to go in your life and relationship so I can help you get there through coaching and mentoring.
• Because we’ll spend very little time looking at what’s wrong, you will begin to look for what's right in your life (and your relationship) keeping you moving forward. But Why Should You Trust Me? My name is Maia Berens. I am the online relationship coach, expert and author. I have been successfully telephone coaching for over 10 years, and I know what it takes to do relationship coaching on the phone. I have coached countless people to improve their relationship life and develop long-term successful relationships. I not only have my own long-term successful relationship of 23 years, but I have gotten extensive experience by working and collaborating for over 18 years with the world famous relationship author of Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus, John Gray. This winning combination helps me understand exactly how to help you create the confidence in yourself and turn it into the successful relationship you want. Recently I helped a man clarify his thoughts and gain confidence to speak his truth to a woman he was dating. His first attraction was great but things about her started surfacing that didn't suit him. In the past he would have gone on with the relationship until it fell apart in a negative, dramatic way. Instead they are now seeing each other just once a week and taking it slower. He feels empowered and she doesn’t feel hurt and upset by his "going into his cave". Maybe this relationship will work out in the long run but even if it doesn't he now knows the importance of self-responsible communication and having support while learning these tricky relationship skills.
"The last 6 months working with Maia has been the most effective personal development work I’ve ever done. And I’ve been doing this kind of work for 10 years! The Pumpkin Coaching experience has taught me to gain new perspectives and replaced the critical voice in my head. Maia will go to any lengths with her desire to help. She's running a business but I never feel like she's running a business. I knew we were an immediate fit as soon as we spoke. Her sincerity and authenticity just shines through." Keith Frank, Las Vegas NV |
I have supported a woman who's been married four times unsuccessfully to find the relationship of her dreams. She no longer sees herself as having to settle for less. She is learning how to tell her partner what is truly going on in a loving and powerful way.
Another woman has begun the relationship of her dreams. She finally learned the secrets of attraction and self-confidence and is headed towards a lifetime of happiness with her man.
| "Maia has a way of zeroing in on me and what is going on. Then we can look at what the deepest part of me is saying, feeling, thinking, wanting. Finally she supports me in looking at how I can achieve the solution or result I want. Weeks later we are still referring and realizing from that initial experience/issue/aha!" Jamie Wishart, President Great Graphics, Petaluma CA |
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"During the time I spent Pumpkin Coaching with Maia, I learned to listen to my inner voice. Maia's exceptional gift of listening and asking questions allowed me to get in touch with a freer, more authentic self. I felt really heard and understood and probably for the first time, I didn't feel I needed to apologize about who I am. Thanks for your warmth, wisdom and care." Miryam Sarnat, Santa Monica CA |
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“I have become focused and conscious and have the confidence to speak about difficult subjects. It is because Maia is so gentle in her guidance. There are no hard edges with her. She brings out the positive in everybody and helps them share their very personal situations comfortably.” Kerstin Morgan, Financial Sales, Los Angeles CA |
We have all heard about teachers who have great things to offer but seem to ignore them in their own lives. I will never offer you anything to do that I haven't done myself. I walk what I talk.
| "I‘ve known Maia for over 15 years as loyal friend, writing collaborator, and colleague. One of the many things that I admire about Maia is her passion and commitment to personal and spiritual growth. It's contagious! Beware! If you stick around her, you'll probably be infected and your life will never be the same." Lael Belove, Professional, Personal and Soul Coach, Writer, Spoon-bender and Business Woman, Badger CA |
No Pre-Designed Program. Coaching Created in the Moment for You
Did you ever hear the definition of insanity – "Insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting a different result?" The self knowledge and relationship tools you gain from individual, you-driven will keep you from repeating the same relationship experiences over and over again.
More About Pumpkin Coaching. Did you know that:
• When you incorporate the most important tools I've ever learned – the Three Magic Secrets into your relationships - every challenge you ever come across – relationship-related or not – will gain new depth and meaning. * Magic Secret #1 will give you the tools to view any challenging experience from many perspectives so that you do not stay stuck feeling like a victim or powerless.
* Magic Secret #2 will teach you exactly who to bring into your life for support and how to find that person so that you will always have the love and helping hand you deserve.
* Magic Secret #3 will teach you the power of gratitude so that you can begin to scientifically change your emotional states and attract what you want into your life. • You will learn a simple technique for healing your relationships from the past. It is the most potent method I've ever found for leaving the past where it belongs - in the past - and can be used in every area of your life: healing relationships with your family, creating magical relationships where you work and even how to get over your anger at the guy that cuts you off on the freeway.
• Take the Forgiveness Test and finding out for sure if you have cut the negative ties to someone who has harmed you.
I'm Not Interested in Coaching You Forever
When I hear that someone's been in therapy or coaching for many years, it makes me nervous. I'm concerned that both the client and the practitioner have lost sight of the purposes and goals of their relationship. Because as an expert in relationships, I unlike most life coaches, include mentoring in our coaching relationship, you will achieve results faster than you thought possible. I’d like to see you get where you want to go as quickly as you can.
But, Maia. What Is This Going to Cost Me?
Coaching with me costs $400 per month. This includes a one hour weekly session. If you decide to make a minimum six month commitment, you will receive a 20% discount. In my experience it takes at least six months to make the changes you are wanting to make. Most coaches limit there contact with clients to their weekly session however I remain available by email for burning questions or comments and will respond with a quick little thought, support or observation.
How to Improve Your Relationship Today
Call me at 310-264-5625 for questions or to arrange a complimentary question and answer session. Or email me at maia@thepumpkincoach.com. If you tell me something about your situation, I will talk to you as if you already were my client. You will likely hang up the phone with a new tool or an exercise that will move you in the direction of getting the relationship you want. Nothing is rehearsed. I never have the same call twice. You are an individual and I honor you as such. Each person's situation is different so expect a mini version of what a real coaching call is like with a client. During the complimentary session you can ask me anything you want to know – even personal things. You can ask me anything that will help you move along your path to what you want. You can ask me about my relationships – past or present – so you can determine if I will be able to help you. Also, I will be happy to tell you if I think we are a fit. Not everyone is. The fit in a coaching relationship is very personal. I want a coaching relationship to be useful and fulfilling for each of us. Usually it is pretty easy to tell. We just both know it. Hope to talk to you soon. Maia Berens, The Pumpkin Coach
310-264-5625
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